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Monday 29 January 2024

Strategies To Address Jealousy In The Workplace

Strategies To Address Jealousy In The Workplace, Jealousy is typically the source of the school's riotous wave.

Make - sure all of the employees are happy. There is a pleasant coordination between the pre-trial, sanitary officers, security assistance, and headquarters.

Naturally, there will be a mess in the middle of the office. When someone receives a promotion, a pay increase, or other form of well-being that enables them to increase their degree of happiness, there is an emotional gap of this type.

There is a divide in the school's communities between instructors and the principal. Jealousy is typically the source of the school's riotous wave. (Jealousy). 

Teachers may harbor jealousies of one another. As you are aware, there is still a hierarchy of leadership positions in the school's community that follow the principal. Along with a host of other responsibilities, there are the positions of deputy head of school, head of laboratory, director of library, chief of workshop, builder of the OSIS, and many more. These extra obligations are frequently flatly turned down.

The teacher's performance will be impacted by the disarray in their classroom. Because of the disconnect between grit and instruction, students in the classroom will accept the worst effects. 

A school's teacher room harmony has an impact on the school's overall education quality rating. 

Envy and jealousy are inevitable in the work environment of schools, whether it's a modern custom or not. Apart from the changes in instructors and administrators, the shift in the school's head also acts as a scanner for the discrepancies in the teachers' collaborative spirit.

Graduates of the Move Master Education program, which is now in its ninth generation, are capable of leading the change of education. On the other hand, their colleagues are more jealous of the school's mobilizing instructors. 

The motivated teacher frequently assumes the roles of source, facilitator, and instructor of the autonomous curriculum execution, which leads to jealousy. 

In particular, the principal, the golden boy of the service branch, was really a slothful instructor who could also pass for a driver—he claimed to be a driver—but he consistently skipped class.

There are several, and often non-apparent, indicators of envious sentiments among other educators. However, speech, gestures, and behavioral changes can be used to identify it.

My fourteen years of experience as a teacher have shown me that there are indications of jealousy among instructors in the workplace.

Speeches Frequently Offend People Directly

In this instance, there will be a significant scarcity. The distinctive aspect is that the flaws are expressed to others instead of being spoken out loud. In addition, their job frequently draws remorse or resentment from envious partners. 

Make More Of a Sloppy, Flat-faced Or Endearing Face When Someone Approaches You

It indicates that he experiences a distinct gesture from the one he used previously. The face will be ignored and the handshake will be chilly even if there is a handshake session.

Begin Attempting To Influence Those In Your Immediate Vicinity In An Effort to Create Your Own Group 

attempting to rationalize his actions and thoughts while escalating his friends' jealousy. Yes, the ones that feed the jealousy are the tiny groups in the teacher's room, each with their own unique personality and flair. 

Draw Contrasts Between One Employee And Another Employee 

His inclination to misinterpret is focused on the personality he feels has assumed the position that is rightfully his. The forces of evil will always take a man away, regardless of the good he has done.

Show No Enthusiasm For Your Primary Task

If, prior to feeling jealous, he is extremely conscientious and punctual in arriving at work, then upon realizing that there is an imbalance that shields him, he merely carries out his duties to the extent necessary. Without inspiration, originality, and inventiveness. 

Follow Every Recommendations Without Taking Maturity Into Account

Envious colleagues often vote in favor of every suggestion without offering any feedback or editing them. In any case, I'll agree. 

A Propensity To Draw Focus To The Leader 

Harmonization in the classroom is frequently disturbed by this approach. Reporting errors made by coworkers is the most typical practice.

There are always strategies to handle jealous conduct of classmates at work, among the numerous other indicators of a jealous attitude of coworkers. You can experiment with these suggestions or refine them based on one another's experiences.

Think Positively

Consider the bright side and learn from every critical remark you encounter. Consider the bright side despite the biased remarks, sloppy expressions, and other actions displayed by envious coworkers. 

Execute In Real Life

Demonstrating excellent behavior or taking genuine action in the classroom is a fantastic way to end the envy cycle. For instance, even if a mobilizing teacher frequently works on projects outside of the classroom, he still needs to exhibit effective teaching methods that keep students' learning engaging when there isn't a teacher there, including employing technology to facilitate learning. 

Without letting anyone down, provide the statistics that represents the best performance in the classroom. It is far more tasteful to share excellent practice tales than to make comments.

Steer clear Of Direct Conflict With Envious Spouses

Talking it out in person won't make the envy problem go away; instead, it will increase "competition." If at all possible, set aside some particular time for relaxation. This can serve as a four-eyes conference to identify the source of the envy and try to rectify the actual issue. 

Show that you are committed to completing the tasks assigned to you, regardless of whether these are temporary positions or extra assignments. To ensure that everyone has an equal chance, there will be frequent rolling, changing, and regeneration.

Continue supporting a jealous coworker who is applying for a job, without setting him apart from other coworkers. with the hopes that the spouse would eventually be able to accept the true situation.

Use a lot of prayer and worship to strengthen your faith. No matter how much hardship, the soul will find peace and direction from God via prayer. 

The workplace is the home that comes after the house. The nearest brother you have outside of a brother is a coworker. They each have distinct qualities, such as various reasons for wanting to work. 

Not everyone has experienced and solved a problem with a glass full of water. As experience grows, the glass's contents will constantly rise and fall accordingly. Not all glass water is crystal clear and purplish. Occasionally, during the wet season, it might be a little rough due to a disturbed groundwater supply. 

It's necessary to have a straightforward mindset that is intelligent, appreciative, and consistently joyful when facing a demanding work environment. 

Tuesday 23 January 2024

Maintaining Marriage, Responsibility as a Child and a Mother


So, what I'm writing here, based on my personal experience in my problem yes, and of course my opinion is not at all absolutely true.

Maintaining marriage, in my opinion, is a form of responsibility as a child and also as a mother. 

And not divorcing that, is not always the same connotative as a stupid and aggressive woman.

At least this is for the POV or my point of view yes.

Disclaimer first, yeah, I'm gonna have to get a good disclaimer when it comes to marriage. Because usually a lot of people auto-trigger when reading an article that is contrary to the reader's self-experience.

As I've always explained, even though this blog is about marriage and family, it's not a theory of its own. Mostly writing on this blog is my personal experience, of course taken the problems that I have experienced.

I'm writing here, to share experiences that might help inspire parents who have similar problems.

So, what I'm writing here, based on my personal experience in my problem yes, and of course my opinion is not at all absolutely true.

The story of keeping a marriage even though it doesn't seem to be harmonious 

It's been a public secret, has always made blogs and social media friends. It's been once and twice I've been pushing for self-release and automatically a lot of people know about my problems.

And so, that's what it's called, unclean writing, or I'm using 'emotion' when the Dea says shit, hahaha. It's like every piece of my writing has its own magnet for the readers, so 'how do I say it'... Sometimes the reader's reaction, exceeds my real condition.

But yes, I mean, I don't mean it, the reader thinks it's hahaha.

The point is, I've got a story of marriage preservation, where we started to lose the same direction in marriage because of the stress of life. 

At that moment, it feels like the marriage is no longer what I wanted and (mungkin juga si pak suami).

Because of the different paths, we're starting to get used to each other's day, even though it's always the same way, because... kids.

It's a very delicate language, you son of a bitch.

I mean, me and that bastard aren't in harmony anymore, especially since our second child was born. Although we've had a similar problem before, it turns out we can fix it.

I don't know, maybe it's because of the stress of life that made us, who used to want to get married, can't do it, but now we're on our own, hahaha.

In his journey until I was able to write this quietly, a lot of wounds and mental down already. And that's what's recorded on some Facebook status, and it's my blog post.

That's why a lot of friends suggest that I just get divorced, my own mental love. And I've told you many times that divorce is not based on capital.

There's a lot to be prepared for, especially if the intention of divorce makes you happy. 

In fact, divorce can't easily be done by everyone, not out of fear of widowhood. But as a form of responsibility I respond to either my parents or my children.

That's why, for the moment, though my tranquility cannot be said to have come from a healthy marriage. But I still chose to keep the wedding book, especially because my husband never talked about giving up on marriage again.

So, at least I have the capital, that whoeverins the marriage is not just me, but my husband. Even though he's gonna survive, but yeah, that's it, man. 

Why isining marriage a responsibility as a child and a mother?

Someone might be asking, is it a connection between divorce or survival in a marriage, with responsibilities as a child and a mother?

Responsibility as a child is a form of my respect for parents. This life belongs to me, but I come to this world through my parents.

What I'm doing, Ortu's got to do with it. If I succeed, I'll be happy, if I fail, I will be sad.

It's not just a thought of sacrificing myself for ortu's happiness, but I'm doing all this for my mercy to ortu, whom I haven't been able to be as happy as they have hoped for since I was a kid.

Besides, if you're divorced, then that's where, especially my mom, I'm back. Under these circumstances, you don't have enough income to support your children either. And with the usual thing, when a man divorces, it's hard for them to survive not getting married again.

His remarriage isn't a big deal, but his children's livelihoods are a problem.

Let's say the provision of God yes, but God loves our brains to think remotely about our future and our children in particular.

If that happens, then be me as a burden to my mother (kembali).

Let my mother-in-law bear the burden of her heart, let her help finance me and my children.

Oh, my God, imagine I can't, because I've disappointed them once, by being an unreliable child after marriage. I'm not gonna add any more burdens to my mother.

And my thoughts are not just pessimistic. There are so many examples that happen in society. Where when a girl gets divorced, she's forced to go home to her orphanage, and she doesn't have to do the same thing because it's a burden on her.

It's not a bad thing, but, moreover, we've been burdening them too much. It's time for her to enjoy her old age well and calmly.

In addition to preserving the good name and tranquillity of Ortu's old days, I also want to prove that all the decisions on freedom that Ortu gave me are accountable.

I mean, my ortu is the type who gives his son the utmost freedom to decide his own future.

I'm free to decide who I want to marry, from which tribe, what religion. And I chose my husband without coercion from anyone.

How is it possible that, after all the freedom and freedom that ortu gave me, I ended up giving up on my own decisions, let alone the hardships that burdened ortu in his old days? 

That's why, for me, preserving marriage is a form of my responsibility as a child to a parent. And regaining happiness in marriage is the goal that I have to, God bless me if God still extends my age and my brother-in-law. 

The other thing is my responsibility as a mother, so that my children have a chance to go to school and live well. In current circumstances, the cost of living for children is still heavily dependent on the papacy. 

My earnings as a blogger who hasn't maximized because of his time spent dealing with children all the time, of course, are still far from enough to fund them.

Depending on the papal livelihoods, the children can live peacefully with me. Still can I handle any time, I'm anter pick up, their girlfriend any time.

They can still go to a good school, get a lot of chances, because there's money support from the pope. If I were to pay for them, the kids't be able to feel what they're feeling right now.

They probably won't be able to spend all the time with her mom, because she's gonna be working harder and there's no more time to be with them at all times.


For me, the phrase 'child needs a happy mother' doesn't always mean that the mother has to get divorced. How can a child be happy, if before he had little time with his father, and now he has no time with them.

Surviving in the present condition, is a form of my love and responsibility as a mother to the children. I'm not gonna ruin the happiness and the opportunity they get just because they're not.

Maintaining a marriage doesn't always mean life is tormented

Then, how long will it last in pain, Well,ining that marriage doesn't always mean life's going to be tormented. At least for me. I don't want my life to be tortured, I'm sure I'll fight against it, so I can't be tormented, hehehe. 

Meaning to fight here is to find a way out. Yeah. If it doesn't or maybe it's not the way, then there's definitely another way, which is to restore a happy marriage as it used to be.

It's really hard, because it requires cooperation on both sides.

But, it doesn't mean you can't, do you? 

Yes, yes, it's a choice of two, whether to survive or divorce, divorce is not my choice, at least for now because I can't afford my own children. And I don't want to burden my mom with divorce, and sacrifice my children.

Therefore, the choice to choose is to survive, but the obligation to be happy is, then that's what's going to be my target.

I'm sure, God hates divorce, even if it's legal. Surely God will merit my intention to maintain and regain happiness in it.

If God is willing, God has a way. One of the most possible things to do is to focus on yourself.

It's not about being selfish, yes, it's about avoiding expectations that make our hearts tough on our own. Besides, transforming yourself into a better person is much easier than changing someone who is beyond our capabilities.

At least, that's the target and the way out that can be done right now. The important thing is that the lives of the children remain guaranteed, the parents don't need me to add the burden of mind and economy back.

Of course this isn't always going smoothly, yes, there's up and down. There was a time when I lost against the angry heart with the attitude of the father's children. Nevertheless, in the hope of God, everything will continue to be fixed, for my own sake, for the sake of my children and for my father's sake, whom I left alone.

Conclusion and Closure

Nowadays, preserving marriage is often said to be a foolish thing by the blasphemy of feminism. 

In fact, not always survive in a marriage that looks less harmonious is bad. Survive means fighting to fix it.

Because preserving marriage is one of my responsibilities, as a child and a mother. That is, the responsibility to take care of the hearts and feelings of the old so as not to be stressed by the neighbors. 

And the responsibility to make sure the children still get the cost of living from their father. Which is what it might be hard for them to get if I chose a divorce and his father married again and had a new family. 

That's my opinion yeah, how about you, parents?